Hi, I'm Nikki Bonkoski
My close friends and family call me Nik.
I live in Minnesota USA. I'm crazy about: Writing, hiking, homeschooling, self-directed learning, coffee, outdoor education, reading, dogs, nature, camping, collecting books, poetry & prose, thrifting, mental health advocacy, and human stories.
I'm a wife and mother and I protect those two callings with everything I've got.
Welcome to my work as a writer, spiritual mentor, and grief support specialist.
I have been doing this work since 2015 when my first husband died by suicide and my writings and teachings have spread globally. I believe in truth, radical authenticity, and spreading information to help people heal.
I hope you resonate with my message that I channel through my life experience, learned wisdom, and warm heart and soul.
I am passionate about nature, self-love, spiritual knowledge, mental wellness, and living my very best life no matter what I endure along the way. Life hasn’t cheated me. I cheat my own life if I give up and don’t follow my calling to share my heart. I hope my words resonate with you and through my wisdom you find guidance.
There is a beautiful light inside of you that can never be bent, bruised, or shattered. I believe that we all have the ability to rise through any trials or struggles in our life with grace.
Please, reach out if you need someone to listen to your story. I'm here and I care about you. You are not alone. I am the founder of The Brave Ladies Club on Facebook as well as Grief Untamed & Manhood Untamed. My totally free Facebook support groups that help bring people together from all over the world. Because when you've experienced trauma? You truly just want to feel like you aren't the only one..that you aren't alone. Dear one, you are wrapped in warmth and light. Reach out anytime. xo
Your stories are safe in my heart. If you need a place to lay down the load you're carrying. Please, reach out.
My FREE Facebook support groups.
The Brave Ladies Club Sequel: Support group for women who are 2 plus years past the suicide of their spouse/partner.